How To Write An Obituary

Writing an obituary for a loved one is both an honor and a responsibility. This meaningful tribute serves as a public announcement of their passing while celebrating the unique life they lived. An obituary tells their story, shares important details about services, and helps friends and family come together during a difficult time.

At Kurtz & McFadden Family Funeral Home, we understand that crafting these words can feel overwhelming when you're grieving. Our compassionate team is here to guide you through the process, helping you create a beautiful tribute that captures your loved one's spirit and legacy for the communities we are honored to serve.

Start with the basic facts: your loved one's full name, age, and date of passing. Include their place of residence and any previous locations that were significant to them. Share details about their family, including surviving relatives like spouses, children, grandchildren, and siblings.

Include information about funeral or memorial services, including dates, times, and locations. If you're planning traditional funeral services, cremation services, or memorial services, provide clear details so friends and family can attend to honor their memory.

The heart of an obituary is the story of who your loved one was. Share their accomplishments, career highlights, hobbies, and passions that brought them joy. Include details about their education, military service, volunteer work, or community involvement that made a difference.

Focus on the qualities that made them special - their sense of humor, generosity, love of family, or unique talents. Include anecdotes or memories that capture their personality and the impact they had on others' lives.

Consider adding personal elements that reflect your loved one's character. This might include their favorite quotes, achievements they were proud of, or causes that were important to them. If they had specific wishes for charitable donations instead of flowers, include this information.

End with a meaningful closing that reflects their spirit or faith. Some families choose to include information about where memorial contributions can be made or how friends can support the family during this time.